The idea is that these can evolve separately from the language; they are not tied to language versions. Contrast that with Python where you have the urllib urllib2 urllib3 issue; with people going and using requests anyway.
There's no inherent reason to put them in the stdlib aside from "other languages do it".
And yeah, folks don't want to commit to sticking them in the stdlib forever. If a better library turns up people can switch to that; without being tied to the language version. These libraries will still be maintained, but may no longer be the recommended way to do things. Being outside the stdlib gives some liquidity to the crate.
The Python urllib/urllib2 issue is a feature. It means any code that uses the old (inferior) urllib continues to work, without having to update it as urllib2 starts being used within the same function so that it can be migrated. That's what promising stability means.
This applies to your last paragraph as well -- I do want to be using code that folks are trusting to be the way to do things forever (well, at least for a few years). I'm not trying to learn yet another CADT language / ecosystem.
Also note that both crates mentioned in this subthread (regex and rand) are at version 0.x; to a not-really-a-rust-person like me, it signals "experimental API, avoid avoid avoid". I assume that is the reason to start a concerted effort to get everything to 1.0 levels.
(I'm mostly commenting because the roadmap under discussion seems to be heading towards the sort of promised stability that I want to see; so having somebody known to be rather close to rust development saying the exact opposite rather unsettles me. Sorry.)
There's no inherent reason to put them in the stdlib aside from "other languages do it".
And yeah, folks don't want to commit to sticking them in the stdlib forever. If a better library turns up people can switch to that; without being tied to the language version. These libraries will still be maintained, but may no longer be the recommended way to do things. Being outside the stdlib gives some liquidity to the crate.